How to Use This Guide
To help make your Surro Blessings journey as smooth and efficient as possible, we recommend following this guide in order. Each stage is designed to help you understand what to expect, what to prepare, and what steps may come next. Taking a little time to prepare along the way can help prevent delays and keep your journey moving forward.
If you have already started your journey, simply continue from the stage that best reflects where you are now.
Surro Blessings supports Donors in many locations. Requirements may vary depending on your location, the clinic or professionals involved, the recipient’s location, and the type of donation.
Stage 01: Interest & Welcome
Considering donation is a generous and deeply personal decision, and you are welcome here whether you are simply curious or already certain. Surro Blessings is a platform built to help you understand what donation may involve, organize your information, prepare for the steps ahead, and stay connected with the people supporting you.
To be clear and honest from the very beginning: Surro Blessings is a platform, support and coordination ecosystem. Completing an assessment is not an application guarantee. We do not guarantee acceptance, approval, matching, selection, a donation cycle, a pregnancy for anyone else, or any other outcome. Medical eligibility is determined by qualified professionals, not by this platform.
What we can offer is structure, preparation and steady communication so a complex process feels far less overwhelming.
Stage 02: Learn About the Donor Journey
Donor journeys differ widely. The first question in the Surro Blessings Donor Assessment asks which type of donor you are, and the rest of the assessment adapts to your answer.
- Egg Donation — The assessment adapts to egg donation, including your reasons for donating, any prior donation cycles, and readiness questions relevant to a monitored cycle.
- Sperm Donation — The same architecture with sperm-donation wording, including your reasons for donating, prior donation history, and readiness questions relevant to that pathway.
Requirements may vary depending on your location, the type of donation, the clinic or professionals involved, the recipient’s location, and any partner or agency participating in the journey. Nothing in this guide replaces the requirements set by the professionals responsible for your care.
Stage 03: Prepare for Your Donor Assessment
A little preparation makes the whole process smoother. Where applicable, gather what you can and keep it nearby before you sit down.
What to have nearby
- Valid government-issued ID
- Proof of address
- Any available relevant medical information
- Any requested photos or supporting materials identified within the assessment
You don't need everything to begin
You do not need to have every future screening document or medical result available to begin. Additional items may be requested later as part of the screening and preparation process.
Only the items the assessment specifically requires need to be completed before you submit. Anything else can follow later.
Stage 04: Complete Your Donor Assessment
The Donor Assessment is how Surro Blessings gets to know you. It is designed to be completed in roughly fifteen minutes, and it collects the information our team genuinely needs in order to support your next steps.
- Contact details, background and how you prefer to be reached
- Your donor type, your reasons for donating, and any prior donation cycles
- Relevant health information, including blood type, general health, diagnoses and current contraceptive use
- About you — physical characteristics, education and a short personal introduction
- Photos, and an optional intro video if you would like to share one
- Preferences and matching — openness, future-contact expectations, boundaries and communication preferences
- Travel willingness, geographic considerations, timeline and readiness for injectable medications where applicable
- Any additional comments or supporting files you would like to include
- Authorizations and acknowledgements covering drug screening, psychiatric evaluation, medical records release and background review, plus the final terms
You will also be asked what compensation you expect. There are no right or wrong answers anywhere in the assessment — honest answers help everyone involved make better decisions.
Stage 05: Access Your Surro Blessings Account
Your Surro Blessings account is your private home base. It is where your information lives, where updates arrive, and where anything sensitive should be shared.
Every Surro Blessings member is identified by a canonical member reference. Donors use the format SB-D-####. This reference belongs to you, stays with you, and is used in member communications so you always know a message is genuinely about your journey. It becomes your stable member reference once durable member and profile records are created for you — your own reference is shown inside your account rather than on a public page.
Keeping your information private
Sensitive material — government ID, medical records, genetic or infectious-disease screening results, family-health-history documents, releases and signed authorizations, or proof-of-address documents — should be shared through your authenticated dashboard rather than as ordinary email attachments. Emails from us are meant to alert and direct you, not to carry your private information.
Stage 06: Get Familiar With Your Dashboard
Your dashboard is the home base for your donor journey. As your journey develops, it is intended to bring together everything in one authenticated place:
- Your donor profile and the summary shared with appropriate parties
- Your assessment status and journey progress
- Requests and to-dos, including anything our team has asked you for
- Documents you have uploaded and documents shared with you
- Communications and updates
- Appointment and follow-up information
- Opportunities, interest from partners, and matching status
Some of these capabilities are live today and others are being built as the platform grows. Where something is not yet available, our team will reach you directly and let you know.
Stay Connected
Surro Blessings communicates through your dashboard and by email. Please add our address to your contacts and check your spam or junk folder so nothing is missed. Text messaging is not currently enabled, and no part of your journey depends on it; if SMS becomes available in the future it will require your separate consent before anything is ever sent.
Need help? Contact Surro Blessings at (888) 492-3469.
Stage 07: Assessment Review & Follow-Up
After you submit, Surro Blessings reviews what you shared. It is completely normal for our team to come back with questions, ask for a missing detail, or request a document that could not be provided earlier.
A request for more information does not mean you have been declined. Most journeys involve at least one round of follow-up, and clarifying something early usually prevents a delay later.
How requests reach you
Requests are intended to be handled securely inside your authenticated dashboard. Any email you receive is there to alert you and point you to the right place — it should not ask you to reply with sensitive information or attach private records.
After submitting, please watch your email, including your Spam or Junk folder, for updates and next steps from Surro Blessings.
Stage 08: Consultation & Next-Step Support
Once your assessment has been submitted and your account is active, next-step support becomes far more useful, because our team can speak with you about your actual answers rather than generalities.
Your assessment includes follow-up availability — your preferred date, your earliest and latest times, and your preferred contact method. Those times are recorded as local times and interpreted against the time zone on your contact information, so we reach you when it actually suits you.
If you have a question before you begin, you are always welcome to reach out. Coordination and scheduling happen through our team rather than a public self-booking calendar.
Stage 09: Screening & Readiness
Donation involves review by qualified professionals. Depending on the donation type, the clinic, the recipient and your location, that review may include several of the following:
- Medical screening and health-history review
- Family-health-history review
- Psychological or counseling evaluation
- Background review
- Drug screening
- Clinic-specific testing, which may include genetic and infectious-disease screening
- Additional records requested by the professionals involved
Your assessment includes authorizations covering drug screening, psychiatric evaluation, medical-records release and background review, so that these steps can proceed when the time comes. Surro Blessings does not perform clinical screening itself, cannot determine your medical eligibility, and cannot promise that any particular screening result will lead to a specific outcome.
Stage 10: Matching & Donor Opportunities
Matching at Surro Blessings is about thoughtful compatibility, not a leaderboard. The goal is to organize potentially relevant opportunities so that the people involved can make an informed, human decision.
Opportunities may be surfaced in a few different ways:
- Surro Blessings Recommended — opportunities our team believes may align with what you have shared.
- Partner Recommended — opportunities put forward by an approved partner or agency working within the ecosystem.
- Eligible opportunities — broader opportunities you may be able to consider as the ecosystem grows.
Automated compatibility tooling is still being built. Today, review is human and deliberate. Nothing about the process guarantees that you will be matched or selected, and protected characteristics are never used as automated ranking criteria. Interest goes both ways — you are never obligated to accept an opportunity.
Stage 11: Understanding Your Preferences & Boundaries
The Preferences & Matching section of your assessment is where you tell us what matters to you. These answers help organize potentially relevant opportunities; they do not guarantee a particular match.
- The type of donation arrangement you are open to
- Whether you would be open to future contact with a donor-conceived child once they reach adulthood
- Any boundaries or expectations you would like intended Parents to understand up front
- How often, and in what ways, you would prefer to communicate if you are matched
- The languages you are comfortable communicating in
- Willingness to travel to a clinic outside your area, and any geographic considerations
- Comfort with injectable medications where they are part of the process
- When you would like to begin, and the support you have around you
- Any families you would prefer not to be matched with, and your compensation expectations
Expectations around identity, future contact and information-sharing can vary by donor arrangement, clinic, partner, applicable law, and the preferences agreed to by the people involved. Surro Blessings cannot promise anonymity, identity disclosure, or future contact — those are settled within your specific arrangement and with the professionals guiding it.
Stage 12: Connecting With the Right Professionals
A donor journey typically involves several independent professionals, and which ones depends on your donation type and location. You may work with some or all of the following:
- Fertility clinics and medical providers
- Agencies and approved partners
- Attorneys
- Genetic counselors
- Mental-health professionals
- Journey coordinators
- Travel and logistics support
- Insurance and financial professionals
Surro Blessings helps organize these connections and, where partners are available, can help point you toward relevant resources. We are a coordination and support platform — we do not provide licensed medical, legal, insurance or agency services ourselves. A growing resource library and partner directory is being developed to make finding the right professional easier over time.
Stage 13: Medical Process & Appointment Preparation
Depending on the donation type and what the professionals involved require, your medical path may include initial appointments, laboratory testing, screening, cycle planning, medication education, monitoring appointments, and preparation for a procedure or collection.
Your assessment asks whether you have already scheduled an appointment with your OB/GYN, fertility clinic or provider for your next donor-related medical step. You can answer Yes, Not Yet, or I Need Assistance. If you have not scheduled anything yet, there is no rush — when you are ready, your provider can complete the next donor screening step and our team will follow up to help coordinate timing. If you would like help finding a provider, choose I Need Assistance and a Surro Blessings team member will reach out.
If an appointment is already scheduled, you can record the appointment type, date and time, and the provider, clinic, phone and fax details. You may also be asked when your most recent Pap smear was, as part of the standard reproductive-health picture clinics review for donors.
We don't give medical instructions
This guide never provides medication dosages, treatment instructions or medical advice. All clinical guidance — including anything involving injectable medications — comes from the qualified providers responsible for your care.
Stage 14: Travel & Scheduling, If Needed
Some donor journeys are entirely local; others involve travel to a clinic outside your area. Your assessment asks whether you would be willing to travel if needed and whether there are geographic considerations we should know about, so nobody is surprised later.
- Where the clinic is located and how often you may need to be there
- Appointment timing and how much flexibility your schedule allows
- Transportation and local logistics
- Lodging, where it is arranged by the appropriate parties
- Advance coordination so travel is planned rather than rushed
Not every donor travels. Where travel is part of an opportunity, arrangements and any cost coverage are set by the clinic, agency or partner involved and confirmed with you in advance — they are not promised by this guide.
Stage 15: The Donation Stage
What actually happens at this stage depends entirely on your donation type and the protocol of the clinic caring for you. For some donor journeys this involves a monitored cycle with medications and a scheduled retrieval procedure; for others the process is considerably simpler and involves a collection appointment.
Your medical team gives you the actual instructions: what to do, when to do it, what to expect on the day, and who to contact with questions. Surro Blessings is your coordination and support platform throughout — we are not the treating medical provider, and we do not direct any part of your clinical care.
Keep your dashboard current during this stage so scheduling, follow-up availability and any requested information stay in one organized place.
Stage 16: Follow-Up & Recovery
Where a procedure is involved, following your provider’s discharge and follow-up guidance matters more than anything else at this stage. If something does not feel right, contact the treating provider — or emergency services where appropriate — rather than waiting.
- Attend any follow-up appointments your provider schedules
- Check your dashboard and messages for remaining tasks or requests
- Report any concerns directly to the medical professionals caring for you
- Wrap up travel or transportation details where they applied
- Reach out if you would like support resources
Surro Blessings does not provide recovery instructions. Our role is to keep coordination organized and to make sure you know where to turn.
Stage 17: Beyond Donation
Completing a donor journey does not end your relationship with Surro Blessings. Your account remains yours, and you are welcome to stay involved in whatever way feels right.
- Keeping your profile and contact information current
- Future donation opportunities, where appropriate and permitted by the professionals involved
- Honoring whatever future-contact expectations were agreed within your arrangement
- Sharing feedback or a testimonial, entirely at your discretion
- Referring others who may be considering their own journey
- Earn With Us, where you are eligible
- Community participation and access to resources as they expand
There is never any pressure to donate again, and nothing here implies that you are medically eligible to do so — that is always a decision made with qualified professionals.
Ready when you are
Questions along the way? Reach Surro Blessings at (888) 492-3469 — we're glad to walk through any part of this with you.
